Saturday, April 14, 2012

Treasure.

Ellie Sue is a blessed combination of sweet and sassy, timid and confident, fragile and strong, feminine and tomboyish, dramatic and hilarious.

Her package is beautiful if not a little sticky and disheveled.

She keeps us laughing, melts our hearts, tests our patience, and challenges our boundaries. But she does it with such flair and the perfect accessory, daring you to just try and be mad at her for more than a minute. (We can't.)

She seems so little most days, and yet my baby girl is quickly approaching her 3rd birthday...



Below: she said she needed a helmet...




She has such a tender heart. Her innocence and wonder and genuine spirit are a blessing to me every day. She cannot help but be who she is, and all that she is cannot be held inside that tiny body! She wears her heart (and 2 year old emotions, have mercy) on her sleeve.

Some say, just like her momma. (Ahem, Rob! ...Ok, he is right.)






She is our resident animal lover, always spotting dogs and making quick friends with them at the park or on the sidewalk. She has accumulated such a collection of stuffed animals, many of which are puppies, that when she asks for her doggie at night, I throw the nearest one in her direction and pray she's not thinking of one of them specifically (which she inevitably is, and of course it's the one down in the playroom buried beneath other toys!).

She loves flashy accessories right now. Sunglasses, a backpack, the baby's headbands... whatever.








But also has quiet moments of discovery and fascination with things like rain puddles and ants that make her unpredictable and endearing.




Oh Ellie Sue, your big eyes and soft curls are beautiful, but your unique spirit is the real treasure! I'm so glad you're mine.

Best Fwiends.

These two.

It is what you'd probably call a typical sibling relationship. But to me?

It is such a precious little bond between two little souls that can hardly be described.

It is the stuff my dreams are made of. You know, when they're not fighting. Or kicking and teasing and stealing each other's toys. (They are precious, but they ARE human! Ha.)






This past March we had a stretch of unseasonably warm weather. One night, Rob was working late so the kids and I ordered pizza and ate it on the back porch as the sun sank low. I reminded myself that Oxyclean gets stains out of shirts, and sometimes fun is messy, and let them eat and play and generally do what they wanted to outside for a while before scrubbing them down in the tub and tucking them into warm, clean beds.

Well played, if I do say so myself.











I love these two and am so thankful that they love each other!

"Mommy, we are best fwiends!"

Music to my ears.

Thursday, April 5, 2012

600 pictures

A phone dump of pictures from the last few weeks yielded over 600 images from our daily life. They range from hilarious to adorable to 'I can't believe she did that'. I'm anxious to post them for you, and to formulate a birthday post for my big 4 year old and one for my new little 1 year old!

But a few things have gotten in the way...
{*Ambiguity is intentional to protect the innocent.}

- 2 cases of Influenza A.
- 2 pulled stomach muscles from 4 days of intense coughing fits.
- 1 nearly full body rash.
- 1 feverish, glassy-eyed toddler.
- 1 preschooler with a growing case of cabin fever.
- 1 case of croup.
- 2 severely underslept parents.
- 2 trips to the doctor.
- 3 trips to the pharmacy.
- 1 trip to the car dealership for an oil change and a new spark plug (resulting in 3 hours in a sparsely furnished children's play area, ugh).
- 1 steam-up-the-bathroom-then-sit-on-the-front-porch-in-the-cool-air treatment.
- 1 grandmother who took one for the team and spent whole days helping me with the kids only to come down with our illness herself (I'm so so sorry, Mom!).

Thursday, March 29, 2012

You are my sunshine

One day this sweet thing woke up with seriously cute bed head.

I melted and took 1,000 pictures while she ate breakfast in the sunshine.

End of story.






















For Cheryl and Tami

I know you need a reason to smile and feel a little lighter right now...


...this is the face Ellie made when the hygienist took her picture for the dentist's No Cavities wall a few weeks ago.


She is full of reasons to laugh and smile.


We love you and are sending your family hugs from Wheaton.

Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Sweet friends who grieve

My heart is so heavy for two dear friends whose fathers are both suffering and near death. If you think of it and are willing...

Pray for Cheryl (and her family) and read she and her siblings' precious thoughts here

Pray for Kristen (and her family) and follow her father's journey here

Monday, March 12, 2012

Lights Out

Robbie is almost 4, Ellie is 2 1/2, and Maddie is almost 1. This is what goes on when they are supposed to be sleeping...

ELLIE...
...suddenly realized that 1) she can get out of bed on her own after we have put her in it, and 2) she knows how to open her bedroom door and thus make her escape. Until now, she hasn't been able to twist open any of our door handles in the new house. They are glass knobs and I think they were too large and heavy for her little hands to twist. Not anymore. Not going to lie, I liked it better when she thought her big girl bed was a crib with invisible railings.

...is just like her momma when she sleeps. Mouth open. Talks a lot in her sleep. At any given moment, arms and/or legs are hanging over the edge of the bed. One night I went in to put her back up on the bed as she was falling out! It was impressive timing but totally coincidental, in the monitor I could just see that an arm and a leg were hanging over the edge. She has yet to fall out of bed, but it's coming. At least her room is carpeted.

...Ellie goes to bed around 7/7:30pm, sleeps in until 7:30am, and takes a 1-2 hour nap from about 12-2pm. She tells me when she's tired and ready to go to bed. She loves for me to lay with her as she falls asleep, but we're trying not to do this much anymore so as not to create bad habits.

ROBBIE...
...has been caught playing with his Leapster Explorer under the covers when he is supposed to be sleeping! This kid... he is like a 13 year old trapped in a 3 year old's body some days.

...is fond of hiding coins underneath his mattress on the wood beam between the slats of the bed. I only found them while he had the flu because I had to change his sheets. Now I know where his secret hiding place is! Don't tell him I know. ;)

...absolutely hates going to bed, but we still make him do it around 7/7:30pm. He sleeps until 5:45am, maybe 6am if I'm lucky and he's extra tired. Then he decides what kind of mood he's in: tap mommy's face until she wakes up? stand nose to nose with her and breathe quietly until she freaks out and wakes up? go stealth-mode and try to unplug her iPhone and sneak off with it to take pictures for an hour? or just climb up into bed with her and nag her to put a cartoon on until she gets up?

...is getting over his fear of sleeping in his own room and no longer talks about being afraid of the dark, but does not like to spend a minute longer than necessary in there by himself. {See above...}

...does not seem ready to begin potty training overnight. We've had a few failed attempts and aren't rushing things.

...averages 1 or 2 naps per week, and Wednesdays are almost a guaranteed nap day since "School is really makin' me tired!".

...loves for me to tuck him in with the story of how his dad and I prayed that God would give us a baby, and then HE was born! And he makes us so happy. He closes his eyes and snuggles down under his blanket and everything seems right in his little world.

MADDIE...
...catches her naps when she can. She typically takes 2 a day, one in the morning and one in the afternoon. Some days she only gets one monster nap, like on Wednesdays when she typically sleeps from 1-4pm, and some days she catches up and takes 3.

...adores the stuffed animals in her crib and clutches them as she sleeps. She uses a paci to sleep, and I think this also helps her with her teething discomfort. She hates her sleep sacks and tries to pull them off!

...heads to bed around 6:15/6:30pm, and sleeps until 7:30/8am! She rarely wakes in the night, although lately she's been bothered by her teeth. The sounds of the ocean on her sound machine make her feel like she's on vacation, and coupled with her soothing aqua walls, I'd sleep 13+ hours each night in there too.

...cannot fall asleep if anyone is near her, in her room, making noise, or rocking her. She is sleep trained to a fault. But I'm not complaining! All I have to do is lay her in her crib and within minutes she is asleep without a fuss.

...is starting to wake up with bed head, and I love it. Around this age, Ellie showed signs of wave and curl in her hair. I wonder what Maddie's texture will be like, but it doesn't matter because that shade of strawberry is holding strong and it couldn't be cuter. Especially when it's sticking straight up and out!

...frequently has a rectangular imprint across her forehead when she wakes. The girl is a snuggler, and when she can't find a stuffed animal in her crib apparently she gets cozy with the crib slats.

As for ROB and ME...
...we are still waiting to string together more than a few days of sleeping through the night. With 3 little-ish ones, someone is always waking up, getting out of bed, calling out, falling out, crying for a drink, or teething and needs comfort. Maddie has been sleeping through the night for the better part of the last year, and the older two are doing better now that they have their own rooms. And yet... we are still tired from who knows what that is going on through the night! Thank goodness for hot showers, coffee, and under eye concealer.