Monday, January 4, 2010

Christmas in New Jersey!

We had a wonderful trip out east to see Rob's family and celebrate Christmas together.  It was quite a long drive (with diaper changes just about every 2 hours, it took us over 14 hours to get there!  The trip home was worse, as we clocked almost 16 hours in the van.  But it was complicated by a blizzard for the entire stretch of Indiana, and by the fact that one of our kids needed a fresh diaper almost once an hour for the first half of the trip.  Talk about bad luck!).  But it was SO worth it!

We celebrated Christmas together with a gift exchange the day after we arrived.  This year was particularly comical as the number of children continues to grow and opening gifts gets louder, more chaotic and messier as a result! 
 

None of us will have to wonder if we'll remember the holidays together... they are well documented!


Great-Grandma Nellie (Livingston) was sweet to hold Ellie, but after this moment she politely declined attempting to hold her again, saying "She doesn't know me!".  Can you blame her!?


Ellie and Katelin (3 weeks apart) continue to enjoy these little moments of getting to know one another.  They seemed to really love sitting or laying next to each other, and would reach out a friendly hand to explore the other's face when they were close enough.  Such sweet girls!
 
Thank you for your inspiration and example, Katelin - Ellie is now certifiably rolling over!


The boys were just as cute as ever together.  They spent a LOT of time running around the house or couch, playing toys or trains, pretend cooking at the little kitchen, watching Madagascar 2, and wrestling.  Robbie took a few bonks that were good for him, and continues to talk about Nicholas and James constantly, even praying for them unprompted at meals.  We love fostering their cousin-relationships!


As you can imagine, Christmas was a little overwhelming for Robbie this year.  He knew what was going on (sort of), and enjoyed opening gifts.  But once he saw what the item was, he wanted to open it and play with it immediately.  If we declined and tried to divert his attention with another gift, he would get upset.  (Remember, he had just spent the entire day prior to this in the van, sans nap.)  So, he spent much of the gift exchange playing with the first gift he opened - a toy toaster and bread slices for his kitchen at home - at the pretend kitchen we moved into the doorway of the family room so that he was at least NEAR the action!

For the rest of the week we let him pick presents from his pile still under the tree and open his remaining gifts at will.  It took him 2 or 3 days to get through them all!


It is such a blessing to be able to stay at Robs' parents' house when we visit.  There is so much space for everyone and plenty of bedrooms for us.  And the best part is all of the time the kids get to spend with Grammy and Papa in between the excitement and activities.  

Papa and Robbie spend a quiet afternoon building with Legos.


Papa read this new Thomas book (with sound buttons) to Robbie over and over one day, until he could press almost all of the buttons correctly at Papa's command!  You think of the best gifts, Grammy.


Not much of a story here... just cuteness I couldn't ignore.


All 5 cousins - why are MY kids the ones that are so hard to keep still and facing forward!?
(Katelin, James, Nicholas, Ellie and Robbie)


Uncle Ryan was able to come home the evening of new year's day and we spent the time opening his gifts for the kids, wrestling / generally playing in the family room, and then watching Madagascar 2.  I missed everything after that, since we needed to be packed up to leave by 6/7am the next morning and I wanted Rob to spend every minute he could with his family.  But it was great to see Ryan even if only for one evening.


Family movie night - James kept saying "I can't hear the movie!" when the other boys were playing or the adults were talking.  Uncle Brad and Aunt Christine's laps are always in demand and rarely empty.


It was such a memorable trip, and we are so thankful that we made it out and back safely.  As you can imagine, the kids were spoiled by the generosity of everyone.

I was so blessed by the gift Christine gave to me this year.  (Every year we draw names among the siblings and spouses, and this year Christine had me.)  She surprised me by turning my blog - each post from 2009 - into a published book via Blurb.com!  It was unexpected, and totally shocking since I had attempted it myself and all but given up because of the amount of time it was taking me.  She figured out a quicker way of putting it together, and it's so much cuter than what I had started.  Thank goodness.  Such a labor of love, and the perfect gift for me!  I have so little free time and started to blog partly so that we would eventually have some sort of family photo album with stories included.  I am still shocked and thrilled to have most of my blog in a hard back book, and everyone on both sides of our family has enjoyed rereading posts and looking at pictures from the last year.  Thanks again, Christine!  Your thoughtfulness and generosity continue to blow me away.

We spent New Year's Eve in New Jersey as well, but now that we are parents to two small babies, there's no going out or staying up all night.  They wake up at the same time (EARLY) no matter what day it is!  After dinner at Rachel and Marc's house nearby, we enjoyed ringing in the new year at midnight from our cozy spot in bed, quietly hoping that the fireworks outside wouldn't wake the babies (they did Ellie).  I did get to take a lovely bath before bed in the most wonderful tub you've ever seen at the Livingstons', so that was a luxury I hadn't experienced in quite a while, and worth noting!

We will always look back on this trip with fondness at the memories we made - getting to spend time with Frank, cousin Kate and little Jack; pop over visits from the Levines and Aunt Holly; matching hot pink vests and headbands for the girls from Aunt Christine; slow mornings in our pj's with Grammy and Papa; and great conversation over good food.

Friday, December 25, 2009

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Christmas Eve - Part 3

After getting the kids into their Christmas pj's, we made hot chocolate (cold for Robbie) and piled into the car to drive around Wheaton and look at the Christmas lights while sipping our drinks and listening to Christmas music.  It was fun even though it was raining, and everything was covered with a thick layer of ice which made the world at night seem to sparkle.  On the way home we picked up Chinese food, since having fun today and cooking a big meal tomorrow trumped cooking tonight.

Then it was time to get ready for the Big Guy's overnight arrival... setting out the milk and cookies.  We explained to Robbie that Santa needs a snack because it's a long night for him, and Robbie seemed to think that it had been a long night for HIM, too... and helped himself to Santa's milk and cookies!

"Those 2 cookies sure look lonely on this plate..."


Um, yes honey - I can see you.

We also added baby carrots to the plate (for the reindeer, of course).  Robbie wanted to test those out as well, but nearly choked on the bits after chewing and gave me a mild heart attack.  Next year we're sticking to milk and cookies only.

Thanks, Great Grandma Jessie, for this adorable dish set!  We were so excited to use it tonight.  Especially Robbie, apparently.  :)

And with that, we are all off to enjoy a long winter's nap... 

Christmas Eve - Part 2

Last year we started the tradition of giving Robbie a Christmas Eve gift - Christmas pj's for that night.  I couldn't wait to find matching pj's this year for both kids.


The best picture of the 2 of them on the couch I could get in their matching pj's!  Ha.


Oh goodness, this sweet girl just melts my heart.  
Please do not overlook the way she has her feet stacked.


I love this picture of Robbie because it explains perfectly what he is like right now.  Obsessed with Polar Express and viewing it 3 inches from the TV, unable to sit down, up on his tip-toes all day long reaching for things he shouldn't be, toys everywhere.  I snapped this shot just moments after he tried to fit his large Thomas the Train figurine into the nativity manger.  The train puzzle pieces didn't fit either, but not for lack of trying.


What makes me the happiest mom in the world - when my kids love on each other.
Merry Christmas to me!  (And, don't you love how babies respond to kisses by trying to suck on the kisser's face?!)


My favorite picture of Ellie tonight - enjoying her Christmas Eve bottle on her daddy's lap.  It doesn't get much better than this.

What a blessed night this is!

Christmas Eve - Part 1

Robbie is our little sponge, and we are having a lot of fun teaching him about Christmas.  He knows who Santa is and what he says... after this morning he knows some of the words to Jingle Bells... and he knows presents are for opening.  But more importantly to us, he knows whose birthday Christmas is ('baby cheese-us!').  Tonight we thought it would be fun to start off celebrating Christmas Eve by baking Jesus a birthday cake.

I poured all the ingredients into the bowl, and he mixed it with the spoon (his favorite kitchen activity)...


Oops.  This is the gene he got from his mother.


Later in the evening he helped me get the cake out of the oven (not really - but he does love my Orka).  Don't worry, this was taken hours after the cake had cooled.


He helped me spread the frosting... and got a lick in there too, don't worry.


And even threw a few sprinkles on.  My little taste tester wasn't about to let the cake have all those pretty sprinkles.  Here he is most likely discussing that candles usually have fire, or that this birthday cake is for Jesus.  It sounded mostly like: "dis-and-dis-and-dis-and-dis", his go-to babbling when he doesn't have the words to use to describe what he's trying to say.

It was a fun tradition to start with him.

And just because I love everything that is going on in this picture...
I asked Robbie to tell Daddy about the cake he had made for Jesus.  Ellie couldn't spin herself around in the exersaucer fast enough, so she just leaned back to listen!

I love my little family...

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Santa is a Target Employee

A little Christmas story to make you smile...

Backstory: Ellie had a rough  night last night after receiving her usual vaccinations at the Dr. yesterday along with first doses of flu and H1N1 vaccines.  She seems to feel better this morning, as long as I'm giving her a little extra love and attention.  Robbie woke up crabby and all that could make him happy in the world was to watch Polar Express while drinking a cup of apple juice.  We had big plans to stay inside all day long.  Halfway through our peaceful viewing for the hundredth time, the DVD stops working (jumping and then freezing completely).  What else am I to do but throw the kids in the car and search for a new copy, what with a borderline sick baby and tantrum-y toddler?  We need peace today!  Especially since we are NOT attempting the trek to New Jersey in a few days without this beloved movie.  It is certainly our ticket to quiet and calm in the van for at least a few hours.

So this morning we are meandering around Target (after locating the new copy of Polar Express, of course), and who should appear in the canned goods aisle but a Target employee stocking the shelves.  What was unique about this man was that he was a jolly old fellow with a white beard, spectacle glasses, and of course the standard Target-red shirt!  On the heels of teaching Robbie who Santa Claus is, I knew he would take notice of this sweet old man just as I had, and make the comparison.  

The man made his way past us, and gave us a kind smile.  As soon as Robbie looked up from his perch within our shopping cart and made eye contact with the man, he froze.  His gaze followed the man as he walked away, and I stopped and watched to see what Robbie would do.  After a few seconds of stunned silence, wheels obviously spinning furiously in his little head, he turned to me with his wide eyes and a happily surprised expression and quietly exclaimed,

"Ho-Ho-Ho!"

Two other women were nearby in the same aisle, and watched this all happen.  They chuckled at Robbie's assumption that this dear Target employee might in fact be Santa Claus in disguise.

And I was worried that I might not get Robbie over to the mall to see Santa before Christmas...

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Happy 6 Month Birthday, Ellie!

It seems like I was just posting Ellie's 5 month pictures... since they were late in being put up, it really only has been 2 1/2 weeks!  There haven't been dramatic changes in Ellie's growth this month.  She is as sweet as can be, and the perfect combination of mellow and happily attentive.  She continues to be enamored by her big brother, and the highlight of her day seems to be when he climbs up the side of her crib and hangs over the edge to say good morning to her before I lift her out.  She's all smiles then!


Speaking of the big brother, he is as busy as ever.  I look for every opportunity to lay Ellie on the ground or on her play mat but there are very few safe moments to be found in each day.  For this reason, she has yet to roll over.  I know she'll do things in her own time, but I can't help but feel responsible for the delay!

I can't wait until Ellie is able to tell me what's really on her mind.  She loves to try and talk to me, usually as I'm about to put her to bed.  (What she lacks in physical ability at this point, she makes up for in smarts.)  I am a sucker for her sweet babbling and always linger a few minutes to listen to what she has to say and offer a few of my own 'bah-bah-bahs' and 'le-la-los'.


If anyone sees a resemblance in her to us, please let us know.  We have yet to determine who she looks like!  We LOVE that she is her own little person, though.


Today I was finally able to write again in the journal I've kept for Ellie since we learned of my pregnancy with her.  The last entry in her journal was exactly one week prior to her birth.  What they say about the second child is true.  Less is documented, and life is exponentially busier and more full.  She doesn't even have a 'First Year' calendar like Robbie did!  But I never want this sweet girl to feel less important.  I hope she grows up knowing that she is a precious treasure.

Sweet Elizabeth Suzanne - God's perfect gift to us!